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Anxiety Self-Help: 7 Tips to Help You Control Anxiety

Do you struggle with racing thoughts, fear, problems breathing, or an inability to sit still and be calm? You might have anxiety, a condition that is treatable using therapeutic techniques. Fortunately, there are also things you can do at home each day as part of anxiety self-help practices to reduce your anxiety.

1. Breathe to Control Anxiety

Breathing exercises are anxiety self-help practices that you can do every day, whether you feel an anxiety attack coming on or not. One simple technique is to focus on your breath as you inhale, hold, and exhale. This helps to regulate your breathing, but also shifts your focus away from whatever is causing the anxiety to something else.

2. Exercise to Control Anxiety

Daily exercise is another anxiety self-help technique. According to Harvard Medical School, engaging in aerobic exercise (enough to break a sweat and increase your heart rate) can have the following positive health benefits:

  • Exercise increases the size of the hippocampus, which affects learning and verbal memory.
  • Exercise contributes to the brain’s growth of new blood vessels.
  • Exercise aids the survivability of brain cells.
  • Exercise improves your mood and ability to sleep.

Harvard scientists recommend a half-hour of moderate physical exercise each day. However, it is important to see your personal physician first, before beginning any new exercise routine.

3. Use Yoga to Control Anxiety

Try using yoga as an anxiety self-help tool as well. Harvard Medical School also notes that yoga may provide some benefit in lowering blood pressure and reducing heart rates. It can also help to improve mood. Again, before tackling any new form of exercise, even stretching exercises like yoga, be sure to consult your doctor first.

 4. Eat Right to Control Anxiety

Eating the right foods in appropriate portions can also help control anxiety. Avoiding junk food and eating wholesome foods is one anxiety self-help tactic, but more can be done. The Mayo Clinic recommends the following:

  • Include protein as part of your breakfast for fuel that will last throughout the day.
  • Eat foods that have complex carbohydrates and whole grains (oatmeal, quinoa, cereals).
  • Drink water.
  • Eat foods that contain Omega-3 fatty acids.
  • Avoid drinking alcohol and caffeine.
  • Eat fresh vegetables and fruits.
  • Avoid foods and drinks with high amounts of sugar.

5.  Spend Time in Nature to Control Anxiety

The natural world can have a calming and relaxing effect. However, you don’t have to spend all day, everyday, in the woods to get the benefit of nature to control anxiety. Consider these ideas instead:

  • Take a walk during your lunch hour outside of your building.
  • Include potted plants as part of your home or office space.
  • Incorporate the outdoors as part of your exercise routine; try jogging paths or working out at the local park.

6.  Be Creative to Control Anxiety

Artists have a long tradition of harnessing their moods to fuel their creativity. Use your anxiety to inspire drawing, painting, writing, music, or carving. You may find there are benefits to your anxiety. Instead of keeping your anxiety locked up inside, try to get those feelings out of your head and expressed through whatever medium you choose.

7.  Have a Buddy to Control Anxiety

Do you have a friend or family member who could be a sounding board for you when you are struggling with anxiety? Talking to someone about what you are feeling is another way to get your emotions off your chest and to work through them. If you don’t have someone with whom you feel comfortable sharing, consider visiting the website for the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, which has a list of support groups.

Anxiety does not have to rule your daily life. The use of these anxiety self-help strategies may help you find relief and learn to live each day to the fullest.

Life Coaching Benefits: 7 Ways a Life Coach Can Improve Your Life

Are you struggling to find clarity in your professional or personal life? Are you concerned about achieving your goals or communicating effectively with others? There are several benefits that life coaching can offer. A life coach can help you problem-solve situations and find solutions that you can implement in your life without the emotional investment that comes with traditional therapy.

1. Solving Problems vs. Therapy

According to the International Coach Federation (ICF), life coaching is defined as a process that, “supports personal and professional growth based on self-initiated change in pursuit of specific actionable outcomes.”

This means that a coach works with you to help you find answers to problems instead of telling you what to do. The relationship between a coach and client differs from that of a therapist, in that you are not processing to understand your emotions or resolve issues in your relationships with other people. For those who may dislike the idea of being in therapy, life coaching can be an option for working on issues in your life.

2.  A Life Coach Can Be Specialized for Your Needs

Another benefit of life coaching is that a coach can be a specialized expert in a particular area in which you need help. This can be helpful if you are looking for assistance with a particular area of your personal or professional life. Some topics include:

  • Leadership development.
  • Working together as a team.
  • Communication skills, either for professional or personal settings.
  • Education-related topics, such as for children who are struggling in school or have learning differences like ADHD.
  • Improving results for individuals or organizations.
  • Career advice and career transition.
  • Sober living.

3.  A Life Coach Can Be a Sounding Board

A life coach can be a sounding board for you to bounce off ideas and help you to discover solutions. The coach does not give an opinion, rather a life coach is to remain impartial. If anything, a coach is your own personal consultant whose job is to guide you through your process of change instead of simply telling you what to do.

4.  A Life Coach Can Help with Skill Assessments

Life coaches offer the benefit of helping you to understand your strengths, some of which you may not even be aware that you have. By knowing your strengths, you can not only gain more confidence when in certain situations, you can also have a better awareness of your weaknesses. This knowledge can help you and the coach create a plan to maximize your strengths and strengthen your weaknesses. Other benefits of assessments include:

  • Knowing your learning style and how you absorb information.
  • Awareness of your personality traits and which personalities you work well with or may struggle with.
  • Assessing your communication skills and what you can do to improve them.

5.  Life Coaching Benefits Everyone

Working with a life coach can be helpful to anyone regardless of their background or what their goals are. Whether you have struggled in life or have been successful, there is always something to improve on.

6.  Success Can be Individualized

Speaking of success, the outcome that you want can be individualized, instead of having to meet an arbitrary standard. Maybe success for you is finding better ways to communicate with others, or finding your true passion in life.

7.  Coaching is for a Certain Period of Time

A life coach is someone you work with for a certain period of time. There is flexibility, but the idea is that a life coach is meant to help with a particular issue within a defined time frame, such as six months. This may differ from a therapist, with whom you visit for a more extended time frame, even years.

Life coaching benefits those who want to learn more about themselves, find solutions to problems, and develop skill sets. By consulting with a life coach, you can learn more about yourself and work with your coach to develop solutions.

What is transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling, how does it work, and who is it for?

 

 

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Are anxiety, depression, PTSD, existential difficulties, spiritual pain, or other personal challenges preventing you from living your life to its fullest, feeling whole again, or being connected to your deeper self or spiritual nature?

If so, know that you are not alone and that there is support available for you through transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling, which combines the science of traditional western psychology with the wisdom of Eastern and Western spiritual traditions.

 

 

Here is what transpersonal therapy can do for you

Anxiety: Sustained worry and anxiety can interfere with your sleep, create difficulties in decision-making or completing a task, and in the long run, can damage your health. Worry can exhaust you to the point of feeling literally consumed on a mental, emotional, and physical level.

Transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling are therapies that not only help you resolve the challenge of anxiety itself, but while doing that, they also help you find the source of your deeper inner support and mental clarity that is obstructed by the anxiety, but is present in all human beings.

In addition to that, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can also address possible existential anxiety, or subtler levels of nervousness and discomfort such as, the challenge of being your true authentic self at work, with friends or significant other, the subtle fear of being emotionally open and intimate with your partner, or the possible fear of keep your heart closed to avoid being emotionally hurt. 

On a spiritual level transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can help you deal with spiritual anxiety around spiritual beliefs or spiritual experiences and challenges around ego dissolution for further spiritual progress to occur.

 

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Depression: Melancholy or depression takes away the joy of living, bringing darkness and hopelessness in your life. The activities and people that once made you happy now feel empty and meaningless. Most of your energy is gone. Everything you do requires great effort because you feel heavy and tired as if you were covered by a wet blanket.

Transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling help you resolve the cause of your depression, but while doing so they also help you get more in touch with the wholeness in you that is capable, dynamic, unafraid, and alive, to resource you and support the healing process of your depression.

In addition to that, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can also help you look at subtler levels of sadness, or dissatisfaction with life, such as feelings of discontent, feeling of existential meaninglessness and pointlessness with life, and unacknowledged hurt from past experiences that you may carry within yourself and may prevent you from living your life with a lightheartedness and an open heart.

At its best, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can also look at an even subtler level of dissatisfaction or sadness—the pain of being disconnected from your wholeness, true self, or spiritual nature, which is intrinsically caring, compassionate, intelligent, insightful, open, accepting, and at peace within itself.

 

PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), which is often linked to anxiety and depression as detailed above, makes you numb to life, it disconnects you from other people, it makes you watch life as it goes by as if you were not its participant, and makes you live in a constant subtle hyper-vigilant state that consumes you and the people around you.

PTSD can also affect your sleep, cause nightmares, and make you prone to being easily startled. Seeking therapy or spiritual counseling may be scary because PTSD can make you feel not fully in control of your actions or feel hopeless about your life. Yet, there is help also for you.

Transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling target your specific trauma with body-based approaches. The latest research shows that trauma becomes deeply stored in the body and does not just occur in the mind. Part of the process is to develop a resource plan to support your healing.

In addition to that, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can also look at possible subtler trauma (micro-trauma) that is present in most people. Mirco-trauma can interfere with your sleep, make you feel hyper-vigilant or extra cautious, cause subtle fears of intimacy and commitment, which prevents you from living the life that you want to live.

On a spiritual level, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can look at your family or ancestral trauma (the latest research on behavioral epigenetics suggests that trauma can get passed on genetically), possible birth trauma, or traumatic spiritual experiences classified as “spiritual emergencies.”

If you experience some of the symptoms described in the anxiety, depression, or PTSD, section, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can help you. But of course transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling also help with other types of painful challenges such as addiction, compulsive behavior, existential life crisis, or other personal problems that can deeply interfere with living your life to its fullest. We all want to have truly satisfying relationships, realize our full potential, or become more deeply connection to our wholeness, true self, and spiritual nature.

So, as you see, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling are much more than regular therapy. It works on many levels. But what is this type of therapy exactly?

 

What is Transpersonal Psychotherapy and Spiritual Counseling? How Does it Work?

 


transpersonal psychotherapy spiritual counseling transpersonal therapy transpersonal counseling spiritual therapy integral counseling integral psychotherapyTranspersonal psychology and spiritual counseling combines the 21st century cutting-edge Western psychological science with Eastern and Western spiritual wisdom.

In the field of mental health, the terms transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling (sometimes referred to as transpersonal therapy, transpersonal counseling, spiritual therapyintegral psychotherapy, or integral counseling) refer to the use of regular psychotherapy, plus the inclusion of inner resources found in one’s authentic self, wholeness, spiritual beliefs, or spiritual experiences to overcome one’s challenges. 

The combination of the two speeds up the healing process, making it more thorough and less painful.

But, why is this so?

Well, because the more inner support you have, the easier the process of healing. It’s like having a physical wound. You can just let it be there and hope it won’t get worse, or you can take care of it by putting some anti-bacterial cream and a band-aid. If you take care of the wound, it won’t get infected, it will likely hurt less, and heal faster. The same is true with transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling. You don’t just deal with the challenge you have, but you use inner resources that you develop and awaken in order to facilitate the healing process. So, I ask you,

How do you think it would be explore your challenges while being connected to your deeper sense of well-being and wholeness that is beneath the surface?

In your life, have you ever noticed how the pain, or inner discomfort, decreases when you are in contact with a sense of inner support when you are having a good day?

Isn’t it easier to face the difficulties of life from that place?

What if you could live your everyday life from that place of deep inner resources?

This is what transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling can do. They offer you a different way of looking at the healing process. Instead of making it heavy, transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling take much of the burden off by simply increasing your inner resources to better deal with your specific challenge, as well as help you live your life from that resourced place.

 

Do You Have Questions About Spiritual Counseling and Transpersonal Psychotherapy?

 

  • What if my depression, anxiety or… is biological, can transpersonal therapy or integral counseling help? Well, the latest research shows that nature and nurture cannot be looked at separately. 

Our unique experience of the environment stimulates our genes in a specific way, and our unique genes affect the perception of the environment. The two go hand-in-hand. Moreover, research shows that psychological and mindfulness (spiritual work) can change brain chemistry.

This is not to say that the biological component is not important. But it is to say that the psychological and biological components cannot be separated. This means that by working on both fronts one can actually substantially improve or even resolve depression or anxiety completely.

In addition to that, spiritual counseling and transpersonal psychotherapy include possible spiritual experiences you may have as a way to support the healing process.

  • Sometime my life lacks meaning, sometimes I experience existential anxiety and existential angst. I believe that this is just part of being human, and I don’t think one can get rid of these feelings. I am not sure transpersonal counseling or spiritual therapy can help. Yes, painful existential feelings can definitely be a part of the human experience.

But let me  ask you, have you ever been able to follow the existential feeling itself all the way without getting lost in it? Sages would say that only when you are able to do this, then you can really understand the meaning of the existential feeling and surmount it. Spiritual counseling supports people in this specific exploration.

  • I have PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), there is no way I will ever be able to surmount this obstacle and be completely happy and open to my spiritual nature. PTSD is a very tough and painful challenge to endure and live with.

There is no doubt about it. Yet, psychology has made substantial progress in its treatment with new understanding on trauma and its resolution.

Through this type of spiritual counseling and transpersonal psychotherapy, I have personally helped people overcome PTSD, feel whole again and satisfied with their lives, find their sense of purpose, and reconnect with their spiritual nature.

  • I do not have depression, anxiety, PTSD, existential angst, or other painful feelings. I want to deepen my capacity to be mindfulness and integrate my spiritual experiences. Can spiritual counseling or integral psychotherapy help? Remember, mindfulness would be your normal state if there were no internal barriers that were preventing mindfulness from just being there.

People are out of touch with their spiritual nature for different reasons. Depression, anxiety, or others, are symptoms that affect one’s spiritual connection, but they are not always the main reason for this disconnection.

You need to find out what are your personal barriers that cause your disconnection and prevent you from staying mindful during your day.

Is you heart closed down?

Is your mind in a bit of a haze?

Are you out of touch with your bodily awareness?

When and how does this occur?

Spiritual counseling and transpersonal psychotherapy help you find your personal specific barriers that are in the way from you to become more mindful.

You may be interested in downloading the Free Report for “Advanced” in the upper left hand side of the Home page, or explore more about spiritual development.

 

A Real Life Example in Transpersonal Psychotherapy and Spiritual Counseling

 

“Joe” (agreed to allow his case study to be listed here) came to see me for spiritual counseling because he had some PTSD and suffered from depression and anxiety. He knew that those issues were affecting his happiness, connection to his well-being and wholeness, as well as his energy level and entrepreneurial success.

spiritual counseling transpersonal psychotherapy surmount anxiety depression ptsdThrough a transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling approach, Joe and I explored these feelings and discovered that his depression was connected to his denial and repression of his anger. With a combination of psychological, mindfulness, and spiritual work, the depression transformed into strength and a sense of capability. He became able to bring back purpuse in his life and be more authentic in his relationships.

We also worked on his anxiety and PTSD and the specific challenges around them. By resolving these, Joe was able to feel more centered, spiritually connected, gain back his energy, and entrepreneurial spirit. Today Joe is fully satisfied about his life.

 

I Can Help You Overcome Your Challenges Standing Between You and Well-being

 

My therapeutic approach to transpersonal psychotherapy and spiritual counseling is client centered. This means that I adapt my approach to your specific psychological and spiritual needs, and help you overcome the challenges that prevent you from realizing your aspirations, well-being. It will also help you to become more mindful, present in your life and relationships, and deepen your spiritual connection.


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By combining psychology, mindfulness, and spirituality, by finding your personal obstacles that prevent you from being happy and in touch with your wholeness, and by creating a safe and supportive environment for you to share your personal challenges, together we can find a solution to your challenges, and bring back purpose and well-being to your life. 

I invite you to click on the green button below on “Introductory Offer” for a free 20-minute consultation, to ask questions about spiritual counseling and transpersonal psychotherapy or to brainstorm ideas about the next step you could take to overcome the obstacles you are facing at this time in your life.

 

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